Day 1 of 30 Days of D/s

Dominants – The Good and The Bad

When I first started talking to Dominants and learning more and more about this lifestyle, I ran across some really great ones and some really bad ones.  Unfortunately, there were more bad than good at first.  

There were those that played for a bit then disappeared. Those that demanded up front that you do things and follow them, that you might accept right off, even though you didn’t know them.  There were those that demanded you do certain things no matter how on edge or uncomfortable they made you feel.  But, being so excited about this new thing and wanting to experience everything, you do them just to know.  

As Kayla has talked about in many of her and John’s Podcast, Loving BDSM, you start out in this sub frenzy where you try everything and trust dumb asses you should never trust.  Once you start coming down from this frenzy, you realize how bad these people as Dom(me)s really are and you back off and become wiser to whom you interact with and trust to be your Dom(me).  

To match this is the good Dom(me)s you come in contact with.  The ones that tell you to watch out for certain things.  Those that let you know to try this, but not that.  So many out there that are willing to give advise, even if you are not their submissive, and support you and guide you until you find the Dom(me) that is right for you.

To me, a good Dominant is one that supports, guides and challenges you, both in limits and strength.  He/She makes sure to understand you, your needs, wants, limits, strengths and weaknesses.  They make sure to discuss all of this and study you, making sure that you do the same with them.  Knowing this is a partnership, not just a take/give, Control/submit dynamic, for most.  

This is what I have learned. How about you?

My #SoSS for week of April 8

I have been biting at the bit to get back in the blogging world and my writing!

So, I am starting here on my new blog site with my #SoSS. 🙂

Just sharing a few this week to get me started, and they are posts from Masturbation Monday and Wicked Wednesday.  I picked four from each and there were soooo many great ones I hated I couldn’t share them all. 

So, here are my faves from each:

Masturbation Monday:

#1 – Outside by lascivity.co.uk  – Wonderful writing of a couple being able to completely take in the experience of being alone outside and enjoying one another.

#3 – The Sex Scientist Files by lustitude.com – Very sexy tale of a couple’s experience, especially her’s and what he gave to her in experience.

#11 – True Love’s Kiss by mycontrolledascent.com – Eery but kept me on my seat the whole time and a different take on the Sleeping Beauty tale. Wow!

#14 – Sleepy Saturday by bluesubmission.com – I can just imagine myself in her place.  How hot!

Wicked Wednesday:

#2 – Sexiness is a state of mind by brigitdelaney.com – Very moving and I can relate to this in so many ways.  Sexiness really is a state of a person’s mind.

#3 – Wicked Wednesday by sirandkittenspleasureplace.com – So very understanding how a person can get sucked into their own mind and fall for the body’s reaction to things.  I am so happy she has the support of the people she has. So many of us are similar to this.

#4 – A letter of thanks by toyforsir.com – How beautiful and kudos to her for staying strong and working through things after he is gone! x

#6 – Vincent by ifsexmatters.co.uk – May shares something so personal and life changing in a decision she had to make.  

Thank you to everyone that shared these posts in particular (that I shared above), but all the posts shared are always personal and mean something to each person writing. So, please go and read these posts through the links I have placed above. Share some love and comment on them if you can.  

Check out Marie Rebelle’s post for #SoSS.  She is so great at sharing the prompts and memes of others, and herself, that are used to help us all in our writing that any and all can participate in!

Next week I hope to be in full swing again.  Have a great weekend and new week coming up!

An Ethereal Erotic Encounter

LSB-Outdoors-820x450This image of Little Switch Bitch is absolutely ethereal!” (as Kayla Lords says)  Which gave me the wonderful idea for this story. <3

They have been on the trail all afternoon and Lena is getting hungry.  Matt grabs her hand and says, “Come on Lena, not much further now.  I hope we can see her.”  

“I wish you would explain what you mean, Matt.”

“I told you, it’s easier to show you than explain it to you.”

So they go a bit further until they step through to a field of wild flowers and trees blooming around it.  

It is breathtakingly beautiful and Lena stops in her tracks to just gawk at the view.  

Matt turns to her and says, “Now we wait.”

Moving to the edge of the field, he takes off his back pack, pulling out a cloth, spreading it on the ground and has Lena sit down.  He then pulls out two cups, water for them both with some snacks to munch on.  As he sits, Lena looks at him curiously and then at the surroundings. 

They sit comfortably for a while, leaning on a tree trunk admiring their surroundings.  

Feeling a bit hazy, it takes Lena a moment to realize Matt is tapping her arm.  She looks at him and he is pointing to the left and looking the same way.  She turns to see what he sees and opens her mouth, which Matt covers to make sure she is quiet.  

A woman with beautiful red hair swept up on top of her head walks onto the field, completely naked. An amazing sight.  All smooth curves of creamy ivory skin.  She is moving purposefully to the opposite area from where they sit.  

The couple watch her progress, entranced.  

A voice is heard through the air, “Matthew bring her to me.”

Matt rises to Lena’s surprise and he reaches for her, pulling her to her feet.  He guides Lena over to where the woman stands, reaching to touch the leaves above her head.  As she moves her hand back down, she turns to them, her bright green eyes taking them both in.

“What a pleasure to see you, Lena.  Matthew has told me all about you. Please do not be afraid.  You will come to no harm.”

Lena blinks at this woman’s ethereal beauty.  “I believe you,” she says quietly.

“Wonderful.  Come, we will sit among the wild flowers.” And she guides them to a spot in the middle of the field.  

They all sit there.  The woman on one side of Lena and Matt on the other.  Lena sees, hears and feels everything, yet she can’t seem to utter another word nor control what happens next. 

As Matt helps the woman undress Lena and Matt undresses himself, Lena is caught up in the sensations she feels as things occur.  

“My name is Ainia, Lena.  I want to give and take pleasure with you.  Is that okay?”

Lena nods slowly, feeling a shiver of longing go through her body.  

“Oh good.  Matthew and I are going to please you and then we shall all do so for each other.”

As she says this she is touching Lena on her perky taught nipples and leans in to nip at them with her teeth ever so gently.  This brings moans of pleasure from Lena.  She then moves her hands down Lena’s tummy, over to her hips and down to her thighs.  Matt pushes Lena down gently to the ground where she is laying on soft thick grass and flowers.  

He kisses her gently on the mouth, chin and neck, stopping to nibble at her sensitive spot just there.  She feels Ainia spreading her legs to get to her mound easily and feels her licking her puckered lips that are swollen from the blood rushing to them in anticipation.  Matt has moved down to her nipples and is sucking one and then the other as Ainia is working her clit and has two fingers sliding in and out of her cunt slowly and rhythmically.

It’s not long before she feels her strong release. 

She gets lost in their ethereal erotic encounter. 

Lena wakes in her bed, naked and well rested.  

Was that real or just a dream? Where is Matt?  What really happened?  Will she ever know?  She must find out!

 

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One Of Those Stormy Days

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There are days Susie doesn’t feel submissive at all.  This is one of those days.  No matter what Daddy tells her she wants to go against it.  Something has been brewing in her for the past few days and she doesn’t know what.  She is frustrated and emotional.  

Today when Daddy gets home from work he tells her he is going to sit and read the paper while she finishes up in the kitchen.  She stops what she is doing and just watches as he comes over, gives her a kiss on the cheek and then moves on to the living room and sits in his favorite chair to read.  

This hits her wrong and she is steaming inside as she cleans up her mess from preparing dinner and getting things on the table.  By the time everything is ready she is livid, feeling he doesn’t care how she is or if she wants some time with him.  He is too worried about reading the paper and relaxing.  

“You know, Daddy, it would be nice if you came in here to talk to me while I finish up. I would like some of your time since I haven’t seen you all day.  But instead, you feel you would rather read the paper and be away from me.” She says heatedly, not thinking of how she sounds having worked herself up to this explosion internally.  

He looks at her, says nothing, looks back down at the paper and continues reading what is in front of him.  She wants to scream but sees it probably won’t do anything to make him move.  Yet, she can’t help what comes out next.  

“Fine! Dinner is ready.  I am going to the room.” And she flounces off to the bedroom and sits on the bed in a huff, folding her arms across her chest like a child that has been scolded and giving her best pout. 

She waits, listening intently to hear if he is following her to the room.  Nothing.  She places her hands on both sides of her legs on the bed and holds the covers in her grip.  Listening.  Still nothing.  

In another huff, she pushes herself off the bed and peaks out the door and down the hall to see if he is there.  Nope, not there.  She walks back into the room, paces the floor and then takes a deep breath.  She turns and walks back to the kitchen.  

He is still in his chair, reading the newspaper.  

She walks over to him, kneels in front of him, places a hand on his knee and says, “I’m sorry, Daddy, I don’t know where that came from.  Please forgive me.  I guess I just want your attention.”

He finally looks down at her, folds the paper and places it on the table beside his chair. 
“There are other ways to get my attention Kitten.  If you wanted me in there with you to talk, all you had to do was ask.”

“Yes, Sir, I know you are right.”

“So what do we do about it now?” he asked.

“Discipline spanking Daddy?”  

“Yes, but I believe we will wait until after dinner.  Let you think about it a bit more.  Have your corner time and then the spanking before bed.  Agree?”

“Yes, Daddy, I agree.”  She hung her head.

“Well, lead the way then Kitten.  We don’t want the fine dinner you cooked to go cold.”  He takes her hands and stands, pulling her up with him.

They move to the kitchen table and she is anxious, but a bit calmer now. Damn! Why does her emotions have to take control sometimes and get her in trouble like that?! Will she ever learn? If it gets her the spanking she needs, maybe not! 

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*Pic from Pixabay

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The Thing She Loves

Masturbation Monday week 239 prompt by Mx Nillin -- image of their cock with multiple hands touching itMx Nillin was willing to submit their image to be used for Masturbation Monday!

One thing she does love.  She loves giving Sir pleasure.  As soon as he is home and settled in his chair, she comes over to him, kneels in front of him and says, “May I, Sir?”

He nods and she moves his zipper ever so slowly down.  Anticipating the joy they will both get from this.  Sliding his trousers past his hips, placing one hand around his shaft and one under his sack. Guiding her tongue around the tip, licking down one side and up the other.  

Placing his head back on the chair, she knows she is doing it the way he likes.  He then moans as she takes him in her mouth, just ever so slightly and then back out, kissing the tip.  

This time a little deeper, moving her tongue around his hard cock.  Each time she carries him inward, taking more of him.  She gags but continues.  He steadily moves his hand behind her head to guide her to the rhythm he needs.  Letting him take over, she relaxes to get hold of more of him as he requires. 

Tears streaming down her face.  Releasing down her throat with a sigh.  He is clean as he pulls out.  Moving the hair from her face gently, he smiles at her. 

“Come darling, its your turn.”

She smiles broadly, knowing this is the other thing she loves so very much.

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My Apologies

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I am sorry I have not been here for the last couple of weeks.  I have had a lot going on and dealing with many things.  I have had to do some serious thinking and serious decision-making.

I love this community and how close and supportive everyone is of each other.  I have never been great at holding long-standing friendships, but I can see me doing so in this wonderful community.  I love the writing, sharing and understanding we all have of one another.

As soon as I have made the serious decisions I need to make, I will let everyone know.

Until then, I will continue writing and doing what I can to show my support.  I love you all!!

 

Magic Moments – Flash Friday – #friflash

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As she stands looking up at the beautiful picture of the dancing girl, she is taken back to that lovely happy spring day…. 

Walking down the winding road beside the shops, they stop to watch the beautiful Flamenco dancers.  Mesmerized as the colorful dresses swirl around with the beautiful movements of their routines.  The music fills the air and her body, pushing her to sway along. 

Later in their room, she turns on the same music to listen to as Daddy lays on the bed, naked and ready for her.  He watches her moving to the rhythm as she slowly removes her clothes.  Slipping the red blouse over her head, dropping it to the floor.  Sliding her red, white and black skirt down, shimmies it over her hips and down her legs to fan out around her feet.  Stepping over, careful not to catch her heels in the fabric, she moves to the bed beside him in her black bra, suspenders and stockings.  

Stopping a foot away from where he waits, she unhooks the bra and slides it down her arms to drop below her.  Now in nothing but suspenders, stockings and heels, she climbs, feline-like over to him, touching his hard, swelling cock that is standing proud for her.  Moving her fingers up and down to the sounds of the music.  He closes his eyes letting her take the reins for now, enjoying the feeling of her.  As her lips and tongue take over from her exquisite fingers, he moans his pleasure.  

It’s not long before he cannot take any more and he seizes her.  As they move to their own rhythm, matching the music.  Making the magic of this moment together live on in their memories.  

…What a wonderful moment to remember from a lovely picture.  Maybe she will get that outfit out and remind him tonight.  

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Holding Hands

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I know this is not a sexy post but it is from my heart and how I felt when seeing the prompt for this Wicked Wednesday to share.  

There have been so many different people throughout my life that for one reason or another have either held my hand or I have held theirs. 

Growing up it was my mom and dad holding my hand and guiding me the best way they knew how with all I went through and experienced and learned.  

As the last 30 years have gone, I held the hands of those I love going through things they needed support for, either moral or emotional; my children growing up and guiding them as my parents did me; and friends that needed my hand to hold through several things they were going through.  I always try to be there for others I care for, just because I love them and want to be there for them through their needs.  I hope then that when I need a hand it will be there for me to hold in turn.  I do not expect it, but of course the hope is there. 

I am now in a time of my life that I need several hands to hold for support.  I am very blessed and grateful to have those ‘several hands’.  Sometimes not ones I was hoping would be there as well, but maybe eventually they will.   

It’s really amazing when you have someone who you can hold hands with that is going through something at the same time as you, and you can be each other’s support and hold one another up together.  

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To be offered a hand I need to hold

For loving support and to forward go

With all the care I need right now

Understanding and lifting up somehow

In my need you come to me

To guide me and lead me on my knees

Showing that what I am wanting

Is for release, all thoughts of daunting

To get me through the fears and anxiety

By holding me up by belief and propriety

Leading me to the self-love I should render 

For all this care by a hand that is tender

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I am loved, and when I need a hand to hold and pull me through I know there are those I can count on.  And when I am needed by those I love and care for, even by those I have not met or have just met, I am there/here to lend my hand when needed because I love so much.  

 

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Unforgettable Weekend

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*Per Kayla Lords :  “Eye or Clear Eyed Girl or Masterseye (she’s all three in my head at this point) and I have a strange thing where we see each other at Eroticon, wave and say we need to actually chat, and then never do. Hopefully, as you’re seeing this, we’re thisclose to breaking that streak and having a lovely chat while at Eroticon. I am so happy she submitted her image to be a prompt for Masturbation Monday, and this one certainly has multiple stories to tell!

Image originally published as Sunday morning coming down and used with permission.”*

Stacy falls onto the bed as they walk into the room.  She and Matt had enjoyed a wonderful evening out, walking in the park followed by a lovely dinner at their favorite restaurant.  Now they have reached their hotel room and she is excited at the next round of pleasure that has been promised.

She turns and looks up at him as he stands behind her.  He bends over and kisses her softly and then moves up and kisses her forehead.  

“Okay darling, off you go.  I would like to see you in the new lingerie I bought for you the other day.”

She bounces off the bed, excited at the prospect of what is to come.  

As she grabs her things and heads to the bathroom to prepare herself, he walks over to the table where he has a bottle of champagne, strawberries and chocolates set up.  He pours them each a glass, then relaxes in the chair beside the table and waits.

As Stacy walks into the room, he signals for her to come to him.  She walks over and stops in front of him in her sexy new lingerie.  The black lace of the slip, thin and delicate, falling softly over her skin and the black thongs that match, showing easily through the lace.  She has also, to his delight, added some black stockings and her black heels.  He has her turn for him, walk to the wall and back, admiring her gorgeous body.  

His appreciation shows by the bulge in his slacks, which Stacy sees as she looks down to his lap.  In response, she turns her back to him and leans over, touching her toes.  He reaches and pops her bum, on each cheek and tells her to stand.  He pulls her to his lap and she falls into him.  She encircles him with her arms and they kiss.  

“You are a cheeky minx,” he says as he smiles at her.  He takes the two glasses of champagne, handing her one and says, “To the rest of our unforgettable weekend,” and they clink glasses in toast.  

Once they have taken a few sips, he reaches over, places his glass down and picks up a strawberry, feeding it to her and finishing off what she doesn’t eat.  

He takes her glass, places it beside his and stands with her, landing her on her feet.  

“Go kneel on the bed sexy,” as he pops her once again on her arse.  

She steps over to the bed and kneels on all fours with her bottom facing him.  

“That’s it, my Kitten. Now, have you been a good girl?”

“Oh, yes Sir,” she says.

“You think so, do you?” 

“Yes Sir.”

“Well you are right my darling.  And we will do a good girl spanking before I enjoy your body.”

She shivers and says, “Yes Sir!”

He begins peppering her bum with spanks with his hand. Once there is a nice warm glow and beautiful pink hue to her cheeks, he moves to the crop that is sitting on the table beside him.  

He covers her round globes, back of her thighs and even her swelling pussy before pausing to reach in and touch her quickly dampening cunt.  

“One more implement darling. Which would you prefer? The leather paddle, leather flogger or Lolly paddle?” he asked.  

“The leather paddle please,” she responds quickly.  One of her favorite implements, and even though it is sharp in pops it is also thud-worthy in areas, and is an implement that she both loves and hates.  

“You got it and we will do twenty.  Ten on each area, agree?”

“Yes Sir.”

“Good girl.” 

He begins by doing ten on one cheek and then the next.  As soon as he gets to ten on that one he says, “Oh, fuck it!” Throws the paddle to the side, strips off his trousers in one movement and his rock hard, aching cock dives in to her pussy, taking their unforgettable weekend to a whole new level of pleasure. 

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