Sexy A to Z – Q


I am sharing something each day (not always every day in a row) covering the alphabet until I reach Z!  Here we are at day 17!  I am sharing topics having to do with sex, BDSM and/or kink.  These topics are of things I am curious to learn about, love to know more about or just love to share.

If you have anything to add or have something else in that alphabet letter to share, please do so in the comments below.

Today’s sexy letter of the alphabet is:

Q: Queening

Definitions :

-Facesitting is a sexual practice in which a person sits or hovers over a partner’s face (also sometimes known as “Queening” particularly if a female is on top). (Kinkly)

-Basically Queening is where a woman positions herself to be sitting on, or straddling, the face of her partner. As you can imagine, it’s used to allow oral-genital, or oral-anal, stimulation. (mamamia)

-The sexual practice of facesitting (Wikipedia)

*Here I think the Urban Dictionary has the most in-depth definition I have found and very interesting:

-An ancient art in which a woman presses and rubs her genitalia and/or anus against the tongue, lips, and nose of her subordinate. She classically positions herself in a sitting on or straddling over another’s face facesitting. The first images of this can be seen in ancient Egyptian drawings, but it is known to have been a historic part of ancient Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Medieval European, Victorian and other cultures. Originally a way for upper class women (Queens included) who wished to achieve sexual gratification without becoming pregnant; be they a virgin or a wife with her husband unavailable. It was usually the job of male slaves and servants to submit to their mistresses desires, in Japan there were even brothels where women and girls would pay for male slaves specially trained in the art of queening.
Today queening is enjoyed by people the world over regardless of social status. In this age of balancing the feminine energy it seems to be a particularly useful way for women to feel empowered and can be equally enjoyable for whom they sit/ride upon. Just remember practice and focus will lead to skill for both people involved. (Urban Dictionary)

Personally :

I did not realize face-sitting was called Queening when a woman sat on top of her partner’s face! See, I learn something new all the time!! I know, some of you are amazed I didn’t know this, I am guessing.   That is me though. There are a lot of things I didn’t know and still do not know.  So I am definitely learning new things all the time.

I am always so afraid of the possibility of asphyxiation to a partner, so I understand you have to be careful and be aware at all times to not go completely down on the face.  But ohhh, how nice it is to be in this particular position!

I am sure there are soooo many stories out there about this particular position.  Any one, any one??

See you next time when I share the Letter R! 🙂


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