Sexy A to Z – M


The holidays have interrupted my flow a bit.  But no worries! Even if I miss a day or two in a row, I will be getting through this lovely sexy alphabet up to the 26th day!! 😉

I am sharing something each day covering the alphabet until I reach Z!  Here we are at day 13!  I am sharing topics having to do with sex, BDSM and/or kink.  These topics are of things I am curious to learn about, love to know more about or just love to share.

If you have anything to add or have something else in that alphabet letter to share, please do so in the comments below.

Today’s sexy letter of the alphabet is:


  • someone who obtains pleasure from receiving punishment


1: the derivation of sexual gratification from being subjected to physical pain or humiliation by oneself or another person — compare SADISM, SADOMASOCHISM
2: pleasure in being abused or dominated : a taste for suffering  (Merriam-Webster)
Masochism is an eponym — a word named for a person. Leopold von Sacher-Masoch was an Austrian writer in the nineteenth century who described the gratification he got from his own pain and humiliation. (


Honestly, once you are in a BDSM or D/s (or M/s) relationship, you will form your own opinion of what a masochist is.  From light to hard core.  I find that having a spanking or some other kind of somewhat lighter to medium type punishment gets my mind off of what is getting me anxious or unhappy.  At least for that amount of time it is happening, as well as getting my mind refocused on what needs to be done next or what can be done to make that stress or anxiousness straighten out and make things better.

Sometimes I don’t even realize I am on edge or feeling the stress until the punishment occurs and I feel it all lighten and/or go away once the scene is done.  It is an amazing revelation.  Especially when it occurred the first time and I had a light bulb moment.  Showing me that it was because of the punishment, and focused energy of that punishment, that made me more focused and out of that stressful mindset!

Do you feel the same? Does it affect you in other ways (I mean other than the turn on 😉 )?  Care to share?

My next Letter will be N! See you then! x

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