Sexy A to Z – H


*>This could be a trigger for some.  If you think it might be, please just skip over this day’s topic.<*

I am sharing something each day covering the alphabet until I reach Z!  Here we are at day 8!  I am sharing topics having to do with sex, BDSM and/or kink.  These topics are of things I am curious to learn about, love to know more about or just love to share.

If you have anything to add or have something else in that alphabet letter to share, please do so in the comments below.

Today’s sexy letter of the alphabet is:



A type of fetish play in which the submissive partner is made to feel ashamed or degraded. Can involve anything from penis humiliation to public humiliation.

This form of fetish play is not one I normally like nor feel the need to participate in.  Although at times it can be a real turn on. I know several people who are all about the humiliation fetish play and absolutely love it.


Cambridge Dictionary – the feeling of being ashamed or losing respect for yourself

Collins Dictionary – the embarrassment and shame you feel when someone makes you appear stupid, or when you make a mistake in public;  an occasion or a situation in which you feel embarrassed and ashamed.

There are several ways in which humiliation play is done.  This could be through the Dom(me) putting down the submissive and calling them names or saying mean things about them.  It could also be calling them out in public or making them do something embarrassing in public.  It also could be the dirty name calling or shaming during the act of sex.  There are so many variations and even more, I am sure, that I don’t know about.

*I will point out – This is definitely one of the forms of play that I would always make sure is consensual with both parties (as always), talking prior to beginning, to make sure no triggers are possible to be touched on, and that all are in understanding of safe words and what should  happen if there is a trigger point at any time during play.

So tell me: Does this type of play turn you on? Is it only a certain part that you love or just the whole thought of humiliation?

Thank you for stopping by and hopefully enjoying this little bit of information I am sharing each day.

See you tomorrow when I share something that starts with the Letter I!


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