Change in Interests/Perspectives – Day 23 of 30 Days of Kink


Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

Oh yes, I would say my interests/perspectives have changed.  Where I first thought I would only want to experience the soft side of kink/BDSM, such as bondage, nipple clamps and butt plugs.  And this all excited me.  Being tied down on the bed, the feel of the clamps squeezing my nipples tightly and the small butt plugs giving me the feeling of being full.

Now, not only do I love these things but I love so much more!

I now am totally into spankings (hand, wooden paddles, leather paddles, floggers and crop), shibari, costume play and so much more!  Love/hate the feel of wooden paddles with their sharp stingy pops, leather paddles with their soft thud, somewhat stingy pops, floggers with the stingy, fingers that caress and thud/hurt all at once and the quick sharp cracks and pops of the crop.  The beautiful art and feeling of non-control that shibari gives you in bondage is amazing.  Dressing in outfits like french maid, cheerleader and school girl, its so much fun in role play.  There are so many different and new things I have tried and am enjoying in this lifestyle.


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