Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
To me, the appeal of kink/BDSM is #1, the connection you establish as a submissive to your Dom. The overall trust you are willing to give to another person and the communication that is so important in the relationship for it to be able to thrive. I know most would say the sex, but that is not the focus I had when learning about the lifestyle. I think it most likely was because I was looking so hard for this type of relationship in my own at the time, and it wasn’t there.
#2, the ability to try new things sexually that you would never be able to try with someone else without feeling like you were asking them to lasso the moon for you or change themselves for you. Being so open to try, learn and enjoy new things. I have always loved to try new things and learn new things. It’s just how I am and this gives me that. My limits are pushed and new possibilities introduced and I just love it!
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